From time to time we all say stupid things. They’re things that I call “dumb shit.” We all say dumb shit. The question is can you let go of dumb ...
Category Couples
What’s the Impact of our Intentions?
Intention is invisible. We can’t see someone else’s intention. And intention always has impact. We judge other people by their behaviour. We ...
Trust
One of the questions I get asked about is trust as a foundational piece of relationship building. I like to look at distrust. What is distrust? ...
There are Wars, Abortions and Then There’s Ashley Madison
With the raging tagline: “Life is short, Have an affair” married life may be a lot shorter for millions of would-be cheaters this week if hackers ...
Are You In a Sexless Marriage?
We’re living in an age when our exposure to sex and all things sexual, like porn, movies, information on fantasies, fetishes, sex toys, you ...
My Valentines Wish For You and Those You Love
The greatest obstacle to love is our inability to receive love. Here is an excerpt from last week’s post. It’s worth exploring as we ...
The Best Predictor of Relationship Success
Consider this excerpt from last week’s note… “Love is in caring about the impact of your thoughts, feelings and behaviours. ...
Valentine’s Series: Reflections on What Love Means
Love is All You Need If that was true there wouldn’t be as much heartache in the world as there is today. Unfortunately it takes a lot more ...
Interview: Where Do Couples Most Get Stuck?
I have a video clip from a recent interview for Couples about how we get stuck….. well that applies to all of us in relationship or not. ...
What is Your Love Story?
Don’t go looking for love, instead, go looking for the obstacles you place in love’s way. Each of us has a story about love that may ...
How to Set a Boundary
We teach others how to treat us.
HALT
Yes HALT. It means stop. And it spells Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired. Have you ever tried to have a conversation when you’re hungry or ...